Human

Isn't it strange, whenever we have a fight, all we remember and discuss are the negative things, never the positive. Why is it human to take all the good things for granted and worry only about the negatives. Just like sadness and anger why don't we remember every time we were happy, glad, or ecstatic? Most of our actions and reactions are based upon how and when we we felt when we were hurt, and you try to weed out the root cause for that hurt, but are our actions to bring in that event or person that brings happiness to us on the same level of intensity? Do we work more to avoid hurt or more to get happy?

As humans we are satisfied if in a relationship we have a long average phase interspersed with small times when you get happy. Contrarily a person that makes you ecstatic but also ends up hurting you once too many is considered a bad choice. But isn't it agreeable that the more happy a person can make you feel, the closer you get to that person and thus larger the hurt that you have when he/she doesn't match up to a certain prefixed funda of yours. However, I am no different and tend to focus on the negatives more than the good times and taking decisions based on them.